You Don’t Have to Keep Carrying It Alone.

Reconnect with your emotions, repair what’s broken, and lead from grounded strength.

Maybe you’re here because something’s off—but you can’t put words to it…

  • You shut down when emotions get heavy—even if you don’t mean to

  • You feel disconnected, misunderstood, or like you're failing in your relationship

  • You’ve been trying to figure it out alone—but nothing’s really changed

  • You want connection, but part of you keeps pulling away

  • You’re tired of the anger, anxiety, or numbness—but don’t know where to start

It’s not about being weak—it’s about being whole.

You were taught to suppress, perform, or power through.

But what you really need isn’t more control—it’s emotional clarity.
This work helps you respond instead of react, repair instead of shut down, and lead from your full self—not just the parts you’ve been taught are “acceptable.”

What Coaching Will Do For You

Coaching helps you build a relationship with yourself that changes everything.


✅ Understand and regulate your emotional responses
✅ Heal patterns that keep you guarded or avoidant
✅ Show up in love with consistency, presence, and strength
✅ Rebuild connection after emotional disconnection or damage
✅ Lead your life and relationships from emotional intelligence—not fear

This is for you if….

  • You’re ready to take responsibility without blaming yourself

  • You’re tired of managing it all alone

  • You want love, partnership, and purpose—and you’re willing to grow

  • You’re done repeating the same patterns in silence

You don’t have to figure it out alone anymore.

This isn’t therapy. It’s real, relational work that helps you show up in life and love with strength, clarity, and calm.

Book a Free, Secure Presence Discovery Call Below.
Let’s talk about what’s next—no pressure, just clarity.

Checkout my 5 Star Testimonials below.

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  • relationship coach

    “I was struggling with my inner critic, massive anxiety, and lots of anger. I went from relationship to relationship and when things got hard, I would just leave. I didn’t know what I was doing wrong.

    I was so scared of conflict and would shut down easily or lose my temper. I had no idea how to handle problems in my relationship, take responsibility, and this caused so much unnecessary pain and drama.

    After a few months of coaching, I've learned how to control my feelings, deal with conflict in a healthy way, and speak up.

    I’ve completely changed for the better because of her help! Now I think things through, and no longer let my feelings control me.

    She literally took a broken, dysfunctional, unreliable person and turned me into a healthy, happy, functional, and reliable man.

    My life has been completely changed. I cannot thank her enough! Words just don't express my true gratitude."

    Miles F.

  • relationship coach

    “My marriage was at an impasse due to my partner’s insecurity and control issues. I didn't know how to get through to my husband, but I knew something had to change.

    After Phoenix's coaching, I felt validated, understood, and heard! She helped me identify my boundaries and communicate with him in a healthy way.

    I learned that I shouldn’t feel bad for getting upset and to communicate my feelings instead of stuffing them until I explode.

    Now my husband is getting help and we are healing together! I have no doubt that her guidance saved my marriage!!

    I feel hopeful about our future and blessed to finally have real guidance and answers!”

    Casey H.

  • relationship coach

    "I was seeking out a professional to help me navigate my way out of an unhealthy relationship and family, when I saw Phoenix’s videos online. Almost every video resonated with the real life experiences I’ve gone through.

    When we connected, she was beyond generous and empathetic. With her coaching, she gifted me the insight and strength I desperately needed. She’s so approachable that what could have been an uncomfortable conversation turned into a fluid, effortless purge of topics I wanted to discuss for years, yet couldn’t with others.

    I greatly appreciate Phoenix’s ability to connect on a personal level as well, as she shared her own vulnerable experiences, which made me feel much less isolated in mine. She truly is an earth angel with years of insight and experience she uses to help others."

    Leila H.

  • relationship coach

    "Coach Phoenix has been an amazing coach!

    I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions, day-to-day life, and relationship.

    In 6 months, she had helped me navigate difficult challenges with my controlling family, handle a manipulative boyfriend, choose whether to stay or go, and lovingly supported and guided me through every step!

    She helped me see that my boyfriend couldn’t and wouldn’t change and to believe in the real, loving relationship that I deserved.

    She has the best tools and books that helped me understand and sort through my feelings. She has made me realize I don't have to live miserable anymore! She's proved that healing IS possible."

    Chanelle P.

  • relationship coaching

    "When I was at one of the lowest points in my life, Phoenix showed up like a force of nature. She didn’t just cheer me on from the sidelines — she got in the trenches with me. She’s the kind of coach who gives you the hard truth you need to hear — but wraps it in so much real love that you actually feel stronger after hearing it.

    Every conversation with her feels like a hand reaching out to pull you back to yourself. I never felt judged or embarrassed — only seen, supported, and safe to be exactly where I was.

    She doesn’t just give advice — she gives you clear steps, real support, and the kind of steady presence that makes you believe you can get through anything. She shows up. She checks in. She actually cares. And you feel it—not just in her words, but in the way she never lets you stay stuck in the dark alone.

    Underneath her fire is an overflowing well of love. She’s your biggest cheerleader — fierce, loyal, and deeply invested in your growth. When she believes in you, it’s impossible not to start believing in yourself.

    If you’re looking for someone to lead you through the hard seasons with realness, love, and unwavering strength, Coach Phoenix is it. You’ll feel seen, you’ll feel led, and you’ll walk away stronger than you ever thought possible."

    Victoria R.

  • relationship coach online

    “When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I was putting everyone else first because I didn’t want to upset others or have conflict. I was exhausted and had no energy! And I didn’t know how to say no or hold my boundaries.

    After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself in my relationships (which I didn’t know how to do before), and Im feeling way more confident!

    Coaching with Phoenix just felt so easy, supportive, and caring. I'm so happy I chose her as my coach. I highly recommend her!”

    Beth S.