Meet Sabrina Phoenix

I became the woman who no longer chases or shrinks for love — and now I help other women do the same.

On the outside, I looked like I had it all together—smart, high-achieving, the “strong one” who always did things perfectly.
But inside? I was anxious, exhausted, and constantly questioning my worth.

I spent nearly a decade in a relationship where I overgave, overfunctioned, and tried to earn love.
I told myself, “If I just love harder… if I just hold on a little longer… maybe he’ll finally meet me halfway.”

No matter how hard I tried to be “easy to love,” and low effort, he couldn’t step up.
I kept shrinking myself to be chosen and slowly lost myself in the process.

Never again.

I learned the hard way so you don’t have to.

How I Stopped Chasing Love PERMENTLY

For years, I was trapped in a toxic cycle with an narcissistc, emotionally unavailable partner.
I poured everything into keeping the relationship alive—and lost myself in the process.

No matter how perfect I tried to be…
No matter how patient, understanding, or loyal…
I still never felt seen or loved.

One day, I hit a breaking point and decided to walk away.

I chose me.

I walked away—from the man I thought was “my person,”

Even though it broke my heart to walk way, I did it for me and my children’s future.

I walked away from the version of me who believed she had to earn love.

I decided that I would never again chase after anyone for love, acceptance, or validation.

From that moment forward, everything changed.
I detached from unhealthy love, I healed my attachment wounds.
I rebuilt my self-trust—one boundary and one breakthrough at a time.

I became the woman who no longer chases, waits, or settles.

I now embody the kind of love I once tried to earn by giving too much, doing everything, and losing myself in the process — to secure, mutual, and deeply connected.

Now I Help You Do the Same

I’ve helped thousands of women stop waiting, chasing, or settling for unfulfilling and painful relationships.

Women who are tired of being “the strong one.”
Women who are done overgiving and still feeling invisible.
Women who are smart, sucessful, and strong—but stuck in patterns that don’t match the love they deserve.

This work isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about coming home to yourself—the woman you were before the people-pleasing, perfectionism, and pain taught you to sacrifice and silence your needs.

I’m a Relationship Coach specializing in helping women create the secure, soul-deep partnership they’ve always wanted.

You deserve to feel:

✨ deeply loved
✨ safe to be fully yourself
✨ valued and adored
✨ confident in your worth

Whether you’re struggling in your marriage, confused by mixed signals, exhausted from overgiving, or healing from heartbreak—you’re in the right place.

Together, we’ll help you attract and create the kind of love that feels connected, fulfulling and deeply loved for who you are.

Ready to Begin?

I have my Masters In Counseling, Certifed Practictioner, Certified Coach, and Trauma Informed.

Book your private coaching session below.
This is where your new love story begins—with you.