Meet Phoenix

I used to chase love that made me disappear.

On the outside, I looked like I had it all together: smart, high-achieving, always doing the “right” thing.
But inside? I was anxious, exhausted, and constantly questioning my worth.

I spent years in a relationship where I overgave, accommodated, and hoped that if I just loved harder, he’d finally meet me halfway.

He didn’t.
He couldn’t.
And I kept shrinking myself to be chosen.

For nearly a decade, I was stuck in a toxic cycle with a narcissistic, emotionally unavailable partner. I poured all of my energy into keeping the relationship alive… and lost myself in the process.

No matter how hard I worked to be good enough, I never felt truly seen, heard, or loved.

Until I hit my breaking point—and made the scariest, most life-changing decision of my life.

I chose me.

I walked away—from the man I thought was “my person,” from the crumbs I’d been settling for… I was no longer willing to earn or prove that I deserved to be loved.

I decided I would never again chase ANYONE again.

Instead, I got radically honest with myself.
I healed my attachment wounds.
I rebuilt my self-trust, one boundary and breakthrough at a time.

I now embody the kind of love that I wanted from a parter, from my head to my toes.

And I learned how to create the kind of love I used to think was impossible—secure, mutual, soul-connected love.

Now I help women like you do the same.

Women who are tired of being “the strong one” in relationships.
Women who are done overgiving and still feeling invisible.
Women who are smart, self-aware, and ready to stop shrinking for love that doesn’t love them back.

This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about coming home to your true self—the woman you’ve always been, before the people-pleasing, perfectionism, and pain taught you to settle.

I’m a Relationship Coach specializing in helping self-aware women heal from toxic patterns, rebuild self-trust, and create soul-connected love.

You deserve love that meets you.

If you’re burnt out from chasing, confused by mixed signals, or rebuilding after heartbreak—you're in the right place.

Together, we’ll break the patterns keeping you stuck and help you attract emotionally available, soul-connected love that feels safe, real, and always there for you.

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